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Role of Personality Types for Happy Marriage

Dr Pankaj Gupta — Thu, 29 Nov 2018 16:53:28 +0000

MARRIAGE is a commitment that two people make to stay together till “Death Do Us Part”. Marriage is a communion of not only two people but two personalities. Their Behavior depends on their personality types. A healthy interaction between couples makes Marriage a Happy & Fulfilling experience.

To have a HAPPY MARRIED LIFE; to make your interactions healthy with your partner; the first & foremost is to know about your own Personality Type; which guides your behavior. Your likes & dislikes depend on your personality type; which may or may not be same as of your partner.

In this blog; we would understand about Personality & Personality Types.

Role of Personality Type in relationships

People of same personality type behave similarly. Therefore, if both couples are of same personality type then their feelings, thinking, behavior, likes & dislikes will be more or less same and hence chances of them having a happy married life are more.

Similarly, people of different personality types behave differently. They think differently, they feel differently, their like & dislikes are different. Therefore, if couples are of different personality types, then there will be variety in their life.

At times, these differences are not viewed as “variety” but more as the issues of conflicts. These differences become the reasons of conflict among couples and the relationship starts to spoil.

The Art of Happy Marriage is to learn to interact effectively with different personality types so that you can view these differences as variety in life. Then one plus one with be greater than two.

What is Personality?

Personality is the combination of special qualities of a person that makes him unique and different from others in the manner he behaves, feels or thinks.

These special qualities are acquired through family values, social conditioning, experiences, future expectations etc. Since these are different for different persons, hence people have different personalities.

Behavior

Our behavior depends on our personality i.e. on our values, conditioning, experiences, expectations etc.

Therefore, people with different personalities have different behavior.

Classification of Personality

Every person is unique as he has unique past experiences, future expectations, family values & conditioning. However, many people in the past have tried to broadly classify the Personality Types so that it is easy to study and understand the normal behavior of people broadly. However, minor variations will always be there from person to person.

There have been many classifications of Personality Types in the past. Some of them are as follows:

Guna as per Indian Yoga

Guna means the nature, quality, virtues, tendency or attributes. In Geeta, Lord Krishna has classified the personality types based on three Gunas that are as follows:

Tamasik are those people who have the quality of dullness, inactivity, apathy, inertia, lethargy, laziness.
Rajasik are those people who have the quality of passion, activity, being driven, moving, dynamic, in action.
Satvik are those people who have the quality of balance, harmony, goodness, purity, universalizing, holistic, positive, peaceful and virtuous.

Varna as per Indian Yoga

As per Hindu Mythology, another Personality Type classification was done on the basis of Varna means type, order or class. The four Varna are as under:

Brahmin are those who have interest & passion in learning & teaching.
Kshatriya are those who have interest in ruling, war, administration, politics, etc.
Vaishya are those who have interest in doing business, agriculture or merchants.
Shudhra are those who have interest in serving or helping others.

Suggestibility/ Sexuality Types

Another classification is based on the Suggestibility & Sexuality;

Suggestibility means the way one takes the inputs and Sexuality means the way one behaves.

They are broadly classified into following two categories:

Physical are action oriented, likes to show off and are emotionally weak.
Emotional are thought oriented, do not like to show off and are emotionally strong.

Ghost Nature

Another method of classification is based on Ghost Nature. It has the following two group of personality types:

“I” Type Personality. It is further classified into following four categories:

“I am Right” type personalities.
“I will possess” type personalities.
“I will Dominate” type personalities.
“I am Justified” type personalities.

“YOU” Type Personality. It is further classified into following four categories:

“You are Wrong” type personalities.
“You cannot Possess’ type personalities.
“You cannot Dominate” type personalities.
“You are not Justified” type personalities.

As per Transactional Analysis

Transactional Analysis classifies behavior into the following three categories:

PARENT LIKE

Nurturing Parent type are those who are caring & concerned for others.
Controlling (or Critical) Parent types are those who want others to behave as per the social norms; makes them understand how to live in a society; have high moral & social values.

ADULT LIKE are those who are rational personalities, talks reasonably & assertively, neither trying to control nor reacting aggressively towards others.

CHILD LIKE

Natural Child type are those who like playing, are open and vulnerable. They are largely un-self aware and are characterized by the non-speech noises they make.
Little Professor type are those who are curios, exploring new things, trying out new stuff.
Adaptive Child type are those who reacts to the world around them; either changing themselves to fit in it or rebelling against the forces they feel.

ABCD Personality Types

This is another way of doing Personality Type Classification. It classifies people into following four Personality Types:

A Type Personality are competitive, high achievers and have high sense of time urgency.
B Type Personality are relaxed, laid back and are not easily stressed. They can be achievers but not competitors like A Type. They can delay the work, do it in the last moment, procrastinators.
C Type Personality love details and spend lot of time trying to find out how things work and hence they are suitable for technical works. They are not at all assertive and always suppress their desires even if they dislike something. They are prone to tremendous stess and at times, depression.
D Type Personality are distressed. They are pessimistic and have negative lookout towards life. They have a fear of rejection and hence are socially withdrawn. They suppress their emotions and hence are prone to depression.

MBTI Personality Types

As per MBTI, there are four groups of Personality Types; as under:

EXTROVERSION OR INTROVERSION (E OR I): This group focuses on “What is your favorite world – outer world or inner world”? Where do you put your attention and get energy from – People or ideas. Where do you like to spend your time – in outer world of people & things or in your inner world of ideas and images.
SENSING OR INTUITION(S OR N): This group focuses on “How do you take information”? Do you prefer to focus on basic information you take in or do you prefer to interpret and add meaning? Do you pay more attention to the information that comes through your five senses or do you pay more attention to the patterns and possibilities that you see in the information you receive?
THINKING OR FEELING (T OR F): This group focuses on “Making Decision”. While making decision, do you give priority to logic & consistency or you priority to look at people & social circumstances? Do you like to put more weight on objective principals and impersonal facts or do you put more weight on personal concerns and the people involved.
JUDGING OR PERCEIVING (J OR P): This group focuses on “Dealing with outside world”. Do you prefer to get things decided (plan & control) or do you prefer to stay open to new information and options (flexible & spontaneous).

Based on different permutation & combinations of these four groups of two opposites each; there are 16 personality types which have their unique behavior.

Many Other Personality Classifications

There are many more Personality Type Classifications which people have done to try to understand human behavior.

Conclusion

The purpose is not to make you an expert in assessing personality types; but to give you a fair idea that based on different personality types; people behave differently. Therefore, as a Relationship Counselor, I can say that when couples come to me for Relationship Counseling; I invariable observe that the other partner is not wrong but different because of different personality type.

Since we always feel that my behavior is right; then obviously the normal behavior of your partner (if he is of different personality type) would appear wrong.

Therefore, it is important to know your personality type and the normal behavior of other personality types. Then you would be able to appreciate your partner’s behavior, even if it is different.

As a result your married life would become happy.

WE OFFER THE FOLLOWING SERVICES

To make your Marriage Life a Happy & fulfilling experience, we offer the following services, in-person as well as on phone:

1. Personality Test for Married Couples

We conduct Personality Test for individuals and couples to help you understand about yours and your partner’s personality so that you both are aware of the normal behavior of self and your partner.

2. Personality Test & Compatibility match to find suitable partner

For those who are seeing each other and are about to marry; we conduct Personality Test for you and your would-be-partner and make you understand the areas where you will behave alike and areas where you would behave & think differently. Accordingly, compatibility match shall be done and assist you in choosing a suitable match for you.

3. Marital & Premarital COUNSELING

We offer counseling to individuals & couples before and after marriage to help you live a Happy Married Life.

4. Training “Lifetime of Honeymoon”

We conduct one day training workshop to help you learn the tricks & techniques of Happy Married Life. Besides Lifetime of Honeymoon training; we offer many other training on Happy Relation Training.

5. Blogs on Happy Marriage

We have written the following blogs on HAPPY MARRIAGE. We would be writing more in the near future.

Please write your comments below.

Wish you all a very happy married life.

Regards,

Dr. Pankaj Gupta

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HAPPY MARRIAGE: 4. Give & Take Feedback Positively

Dr Pankaj Gupta — Wed, 24 Oct 2018 16:20:15 +0000

For Happy Marriage, we have discussed in my earlier blog “Increase Happiness in Your Relationships”, that there is only one single rule:

“UNDERSTAND THE OTHER AND ACCEPT THE WAY HE/SHE IS”

In this article we shall discuss the 4th recommendation for Happy Marriage.

You may see my earlier three recommendations on Conquer The Success Blogs .

RECOMMENDATION 4: Give & Take Feedback Positively

As a Marriage Counselor, another common reason of unhappiness among couples, that I have experienced is that we lack the art of Taking & Giving feedback.

Every Person Has Good & Bad qualities

When two people live together, it is very natural that we would observe certain GOOD things in our partner and certain BAD things.

We know that every person has good & bad qualities.

Unfortunately, we have been conditioned from early childhood that we should not say bad things to anyone.

Now what happens.

In the new relationship or the courtship period, we comfortably communicate “The Good” of our partner but, because of our conditioning, we hesitate to communicate “The Bad”. And the relationship continuous happily.

Slowly & steadily, the list of “The Bad” keeps on increasing in our subconscious mind, with our hesitation to communicate.

I am sure; you would have heard people saying “If I tell him the truth, he will feel bad. He is not matured enough to listen the truth”.

Since we are only communicating “The Good”, we are giving him an impression that he is good. I like him very much.

Your partner also does the same

Now if you see from your partner’s perspective. He is also having the same conditioning and hence behaving similar to you.

Only communicating what he likes about you and not what he dislikes.

You also get to have the impression that you are good.

As the relationship grows older

As the relationship grows older, this accumulated “The Bad” in our subconscious mind starts to cast its shadow.

So much of “The Bad” would have accumulated by now in your subconscious mind that “The Good” is not even visible.

Since, we were only communicating “The Good” till now, the communication reduces.

The other starts to get the impression that I have changed.

You would have heard people saying “You are not like before, you have changed. Now you do not love me as before”

It is happening with both.

As a result, both start adjusting with each other and reduce talking or communication.

Avoidance become very common. Both of them will keep themselves busy in other activities so that they have little time left for the other.

Movie remains the only safe means of entertainment because you are together and still no opportunity to talk to each other.

The Outburst

And unfortunately, a day comes when all this accumulated negative emotions, “The Bad” outburst in the form of anger. And when the outburst happens, it take away the relationship, family, kids, everything.

And it is not that very day when the outburst happens, but all the time collectively, when we have been accommodating “The Bad”.

It is neither uncommon nor surprising that people go for divorce every after 10 or more years of marriage.

A line of caution before the recommendations

Before I proceed with my recommendations, I want to caution you, that these recommendations are for you and not for your partner.

As a marriage counselor, it is my very common experience that people use these recommendations not to change themselves but to evaluate the partner’s mistakes and logically prove him wrong.

Please do not do that.

The Recommendation

I would recommend the following.

Give an environment to your partner where he feels equally comfortable and at ease in giving positive as well as negative feedback to you. Ask for your improvement areas. Motivate him to do so. Tell him that feedback improves the relationship.
Do not react differently, if he shares any negative feedback or communicate what he feels bad about you.
When you find something wrong, give him the feedback in very positive, respectable, polite and healthy manner; with the intention only to communicate your feelings and not to make him feel bad or guilty.

If you find these recommendations sensible, then do not wait.

Immediately, start implementing in your life.

I am sure; if you practice, your marriage life can really be a happy & a fulfilling experience.

My TV Interview Clip on the subject

Stay connected,

I will come up with my next recommendation in my next blog.

Attend Training for Happy Marriage: Mere Humsafar

If you are seeing someone or already married, we invite you to attend Mere Humsafar Training. It is one day workshop that will make your marriage life happy & a life-long fulfilling experience.

This training covers the following aspects:

Know yourself. There is a psychometric test to know about your personality and hence your natural behavior.
Different personality types and there normal behavior. It shall help to know your partner better.
Understand your partner.
Practical tips to deal with the persons of different personalities & keeping happy relataions.

As an outcome of this training, you will experience that ACCEPTING HIM THE WAY HE IS SHALL BE SPONTANEOUS.

You may visit our website and attend our other TRAINING WORKSHOPS.

Marriage Counseling & Premarital Counseling

We also provide Relationship counseling sessions for Married Couples and for those who are seeing each other.

Individuals or couples can contact for counseling.

Choose the Right Life Partner

If you are not married yet and are looking for a right life partner, we can help you, through psychometric testing, training & counseling, to select the right life partner and enlighten you as to how to handle the differences.

If you have any queries, please Sign Up our Discussion Forum and post your query there.

We request you to please give your feedback in comment box, whether you like the blog or not or any feedback & suggestions. This shall give a direction whether or not to continue writing on Happy Married Life.

You may also let us know any other topic of your interest in the comment box or discussion forum.

We shall try to take it up in the future communications.

Wish you a very Happy Married Life;

With love & regards,

Dr. Pankaj Gupta

Conquer The Success

9953799435

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Happy Marriage: ADJUSTMENT Spoils the Marriage

Dr Pankaj Gupta — Tue, 23 Oct 2018 16:14:39 +0000

For Happy Marriage, we have seen in my earlier blog “Increase Happiness in Your Relationships”, that there is only one rule:

UNDERSTAND THE OTHER AND ACCEPT THE WAY HE/SHE IS

In this article we shall discuss the 3^rd recommendation for Happy Marriage.

You may see my blogs on Conquer The Success Blogs for first two recommendations on Happy Marriage.

In this blog, I wish to share my third recommendation for Happy Marriage.

RECOMMENDATION 3: Avoid Adjustments: Adjustment Spoils the Married Life

Many of you might be surprised by this recommendation.

Since our early childhood, we have been told to make adjustments in the relationship. We have also been told that adjustment avoids conflicts, maintains love & harmony and saves the relationship.

Here, I would share my experience that are based on my direct experiences and also as a Marriage Counselor.

What is an Adjustment?

“TO ACCOMMODATE THE FOOLISHNESS OF OTHER” IS ADJUSTMENT.

I am not sure if you find this definition in any dictionary or not. But when I discuss with my marriage counseling clients; all of them (without exception) have agreed that it is absolutely right.

They say “I have been adjusting (accommodating his foolishness) with him since the day we met, but now it is becoming unbearable. Hence, I have come to seek your advice”.

I am sure; you also would have done many adjustments in life. If you analyze from your life too, you would also agree.

Problems or Emotions attached with ADJUSTMENT?

For better understanding, I would request you to remember any one incidence of your life where you had made the adjustment in relationship.

It will be easy for you to understand that adjustment triggers the following emotions or feelings:

You know it, for sure, that the other is wrong. He is a fool.
You know that you are absolutely right.
You feel great because you are taking the initiative of making the adjustment in the relationship, to save it.
You are compromising in the relationship by making a sacrifice for the other.
At the same time you also feel weak or dependent (socially, financially, emotionally or physically); that is why you have no other option but to make the adjustment. But you do not want to show it to the other.
You want to make sure that next time the other makes the adjustment.
And many other conflicting negative feelings.

I have not seen even a single client FEELING HAPPY, after he had made the adjustment in the relationship. It always leaves a bad taste in the mouth.

These negative emotions or feeling, once triggered frequently, spoil the relationship in the long run. Adjustment is like a slow poison that shows its bad effect only after a few years.

While adjustment, we do not share our feelings because we think that the other is not capable to understand them. Hence we hide them. And it is a well known fact that something which is hidden under the carpet, stinks.

I have seen many relations turning into break-up; or marriages turning into divorce where lots of adjustments are done.

People repent later that it would have been better, if we would have decided for break-up or divorce much earlier in life. We have been, unnecessarily, dragging on with the dead relationship for years.

Adjustment does not follow the basic rule for Happy Marriage?

Why Adjustment is wrong?

Because it does not follow the only rule for Happy Marriage, that is

UNDERSTAND THE OTHER AND ACCEPT THE WAY HE/SHE IS.

When we make the adjustment, we are sure that the other is a fool and I am accommodating his foolishness. Therefore, we completely rule out the possibility of understanding the other.

How long can one keep on accommodating the other’s foolishness?

My Recommendation for Happy Marriage

Instead of considering him a fool and always accommodating his foolishness through adjustment, the following is recommended for Happy Marriage:

The other is not a fool, he is different.
Learn to respect the differences.
Every person has a different Personality Type and behaves accordingly.
Know your personality to understand you natural behavior & expectations.
Educate yourself to understand the normal behavior of different personalities. Then it will be very easy for you to understand the natural behavior of your life partner. You may attend Mere Humsafar training.
You yourself will appreciate that your partner’s behavior was not to tease you or trouble you, but is very natural as per his personality type.

I can say with my experience, once you start respecting the differences, your marriage life can become happy & a fulfilling experience.

I will come up with my next recommendation in my next blog.

Attend Training for Happy Marriage: Mere Humsafar

This training covers the following aspects:

Know yourself. There is a psychometric test to know about your personality and hence your natural behavior.
Different personality types and there normal behavior. It shall help to know your partner better.
Understand your partner.
Practical tips to deal with the persons of different personalities & keeping happy relataions.

As an outcome of this training, you will experience that ACCEPTING HIM THE WAY HE IS SHALL BE SPONTANEOUS.

You may visit our website and attend our other TRAINING WORKSHOPS.

Marriage Counseling & Premarital Counseling

We also provide Relationship counseling sessions for Married Couples and for those who are seeing each other.

Individuals or couples can contact for counseling.

Choose the Right Life Partner

If you have any queries, please Sign Up our Discussion Forum and post your query there.

You may also let us know any other topic of your interest in the comment box or discussion forum.

We shall try to take it up in the future communications.

Wish you a very Happy Married Life;

With love & regards,

Dr. Pankaj Gupta

Conquer The Success

9953799435

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HAPPY MARRIAGE : 2. Don’t Be Judgmental

Dr Pankaj Gupta — Sat, 20 Oct 2018 10:28:49 +0000

For Happy Marriage, we have seen in my earlier blog

“Increase Happiness in Your Relationships”,

that there is only one rule:

UNDERSTAND THE OTHER AND ACCEPT THE WAY HE/SHE IS

In this article I shall discuss my 2^nd recommendation for Happy Marriage.

RECOMMENDATION 2: DON’T BE JUDGMENTAL

As a Marriage Counselor, I have experienced another very common reason of unhappiness among couples and that is

We Become Judgmental.

We can understand from our experience.

Suppose we have gone to watch a movie and liked it very much.

After we come back and meet a friend and tell him about the movie. Invariably, our first sentence would be

The Movie is Very Good.

What have we done?

We have given a CERTIFICATE; a JUDGMENT about the movie.

Think a little, are we really authorized to give the Judgment or a Certificate?

What if we would have said “I LIKED THE MOVIE”.

What difference will it make?

Though, prima facie, it might look very similar but makes a huge difference in our approach and understanding.

In the first case where we had formed a Judgment & given a Certificate

We are very firm in our opinion and are not ready to accept if someone says that he movie is bad.

In that case, we might feel that the other has no sense of movies at all. He does not even know what a good movie is.

In this case there is a high probability of entering into an argument because he thinks differently.

You would have seen people like good friends & relatives entering into heated arguments on politics. Two people support two different parties; and they try to prove that their opinion is right.

Good friends & relatives are fighting for the political parties and the irony is that the leaders of these parties do not even know that.

We are only spoiling our relations with our good friends and relatives.

In second case where we had given our opinion

We have said “I liked the movie”. That means, only given our opinion, our point of view.

Not a Certificate or a Judgment.

If we analyze internally in our own core, we would observe that there is enough open space available to accept & accommodate the other’s opinion, even if it is different from ours.

Analyze our language pattern

If we closely analyze our common language pattern, we would observe that making Judgments and giving Certificates is our common practice.

Very frequently we use the sentences like the tea is good, coffee is bad, this person is good, dress is good, plant is bad etc. etc.

Big Reason for unhappiness among couples

Making Judgments & Giving Certificate is one of the major reasons of unhappiness among couples.

Compared to all our relatives & friends, we spend maximum time with our spouse.

I have commonly observed during marriage counseling that as the marriage grows older, couples either don’t have any common topic to discuss because they have different point of views and remain silent;

or enter into heated argument on every small issue they interact.

People may think differently based on their personality types.

We have seen in my last blog Happy Marriage: 1. RESPECT THE DIFFERENCES; that it is very natural for people to think & behave differently based on their Personality Types.

RECOMMENDATION 2: DON’T BE JUDGMENTAL

My second recommendation for a Happy Marriage is:

DO NOT BE JUDGMENTAL

Do an experiment for 2 weeks.

Change your language consciously.

Instead of using the words “Good” or “Bad”; start using the words “I Like” or “I Don’t Like”.

You will observe that you are becoming more and more open to accommodate the point of view of your spouse, even if he/she is different.

As a result your marriage life will be full of happiness & a fulfilling experience.

I will come up with my next recommendation in my next blog.

MERE HUMSAFAR TRAINING

You may attend Mere Humsafar, one day training workshop for couples to make their Love Life & Married Life a happy & a life-long fulfilling experience.

This training covers the following aspects:

Know yourself. There is a psychometric test to know about your personality.
Know your sweetheart.
Understand your sweetheart.

As a result of the training, you will experience that ACCEPTING HIM/ HER THE WAY HE/SHE WILL BE AUTOMATIC.

You may visit our website and attend our other TRAINING WORKSHOPS.

Marriage Counseling & Pre-Marital Counseling

We also provide Relationship counseling sessions for Married Couples and for those who are seeing each other.

Choose the Right Life Partner

If you have any queries, please Sign Up our Discussion Forum and post your query there.

I would request you to please give your feedback in comment box, whether you like my blog or not. This shall give me a direction whether or not to continue writing on Happy Married Life.

You may also let me know any other topic of your interest in the comment box or discussion forum.

I shall try to take it up in my future communications.

Wish you a very Happy Married Life;

With love & regards,

Dr. Pankaj Gupta

Conquer The Success

9953799435

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Happy Marriage: 1. Respect The Differences

Dr Pankaj Gupta — Fri, 19 Oct 2018 16:17:21 +0000

For Happy Marriage, you have seen in my last blog Increase Happiness in Your Relationships, that there is only one rule

UNDERSTAND THE OTHER AND ACCEPT THE WAY HE/SHE IS

To implement this rule in our life,

Recommendation-1 :Respect The Differences

“It is not necessary that the other is always wrong; he might be different”.

As a marriage counselor, I have experienced very common reason of unhappiness in married life and that is

THE ONE WHO DOES NOT THINK/ BEHAVE LIKE ME, IS WRONG.

Let us understand from an example.

Wife’s Version

During the counseling session, wife would say that I love my husband so much, I care for him. Therefore, I call him to know if he has reached office on time; has he taken his lunch on time; what shall I cook in the dinner; what time will he come back from work so that I can keep the dinner hot and ready for him.

But he does not understand my feelings. He does not care for me. He keeps on scolding me for one or the other reasons. Full day I work like a servant and get his scolding. My life has become hell.

Husband’s Version

On the contrary, husband would say that my wife disturbs me by calling every now and then in the office. She doubts me that I am with some girl in the office and hence she checks by calling. She shows that she loves me but she always wants to keep me in her cage.

You can understand that how busy we are in the office? If I do not pick up her call, she feels that I am sitting with some girl and hence not taking her call.

She does not understand that office does not pay me to sit idle. After a tiring day, when I reach home, she starts shouting and fighting. My life has become hell.

The Important Question

Who is RIGHT and Who is WRONG?

Wife feels that the husband is wrong and husband feels that the wife is wrong.

This very impression about the other becomes an important reason of unhappiness in their relationships.

I have seen couples fighting in the courts of law for years together, just to prove that the other is wrong.

Learning

We can see from the above example that no one is wrong. They both are different. Their personality types are different and hence they behave differently.

But unfortunately, we have been conditioned from the childhood that the one who does not think like me, who does not behave likes me is wrong.

We respect the physical differences but not the psychological

I tell them that not only your thinking and behavior are different, but your physical bodies are also different. However, you do not say that the other’s body is wrong.

On the contrary, you love & respect the physical differences and hence give birth to a new baby; a new life.

Your creativity is at the climax.

Similarly, if both of you respect the psychological differences, instead of fighting with each other, you can be complementary to each other and can be very creative.

Both of you together can become a team and encounter any challenges which might be there in life.

You married life can become a loving & fulfilling experience.

Variety is the spice of life

If you see around in the nature, you can experience that nature loves variety. Nature produces variety of flowers, fruits, animals, birds and so on.

Why can’t we accept the differences?

So,

RESPECT THE DIFFERENCES AND ENJOY A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.

I will come up with the next suggestion in my next blog.

MERE HUMSAFAR TRAINING

Mere Humsafar is one day training workshop specially designed for couples keeping in mind as to how their love life & married life be made happy & a life-long fulfilling experience.

This training covers the following aspects:

Know yourself. There is a psychometric test to know about your personality.
Know your sweetheart.
Understand your sweetheart.

As a result of the training, you will experience that ACCEPTING HIM/ HER THE WAY HE/SHE IS WILL BE AUTOMATIC.

You may visit our website and attend our other TRAINING WORKSHOPS.

Marriage Counseling & Pre-Marital Counseling

We also provide Relationship counseling sessions for Married Couples and for those who are seeing each other.

Choose the Right Life Partner

If you are not married yet and are looking for a right life partner, we help you, through psychometric testing, to select the right life partner and enlighten you as to how to handle the differences.

If you have any queries, please Sign Up our Discussion Forum and post your query there.

Dr. Pankaj Gupta

Conquer The Success

9953799435

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